Giving a child a phone is not a milestone—it’s a responsibility. Until children reach a certain level of emotional and cognitive maturity, phones must remain a “we” affair, not a “me” affair. There must be clear, non-negotiable rules to ensure safety.

As experts in digital safety, we at the Akancha Srivastava Foundation, with its extensive work with millions of children, parents, psychologists, and doctors, stands at the forefront of educating families on how to safeguard children in the digital world. This is critical, as the dangers of unsupervised phone use are real and growing every day.

Phones should not be a gateway to distractions, danger, or predators. The access children have to technology must always be closely monitored to ensure their well-being.

The Risks of Early Phone Usage:

The Importance of Boundaries and Rules: Setting clear rules around phone usage is non-negotiable. Parents should have access to their child’s phone at any time. This includes knowing their passwords and being involved in the apps they are using. Social media must be strictly prohibited until a child reaches an age where they can responsibly navigate the risks it presents.

The Dangers of Untethered Access: Allowing children unrestricted access to their phones or private space like bedrooms after a certain age opens the door for harmful behavior. Children need structure, and bedrooms—being private spaces—offer an environment that can lead to dangerous encounters with online predators. No phone should be taken into the bedroom for any reason. They also need their sleep.

The Impact on Mental Health: Research shows that excessive screen time and phone use can have serious effects on children’s mental health, from increasing anxiety to disrupting sleep patterns.  Social media and digital platforms are breeding grounds for bullying, unrealistic beauty standards, and emotional distress, increasing the risk of anxiety and depression in children.

Phones must not interfere with family time or the child’s need for rest. Establishing boundaries on phone use ensures that children grow up with a healthy relationship to technology.

Predators and Grooming: Without strict rules, children are highly vulnerable to online predators. Phones behind closed doors are dangerous—predators can groom children in secrecy, leading to potential exploitation.

Monitor Usage: Phones should never be used during dinner or family time. This ensures that kids stay connected with their loved ones, strengthening their social skills and emotional well-being. Keeping the phone out of these spaces also fosters healthy habits and avoids overstimulation.

Overstimulation: Studies show that excessive phone use at a young age can negatively impact children’s cognitive development. The rapid information overload can hinder their ability to focus, impairing their academic and emotional growth.

Non-Negotiable Phone Rules for Kids:

• Phone as a “We” Affair: Phones must remain a “we” affair, not a “me” affair. Parents must have full access to their child’s phone at all times.
• No Social Media Until Maturity: Social media can expose children to harmful interactions. They should not be allowed access until they are mature enough to handle the pressures and risks.
• No Phones Behind Closed Doors: A phone in the bedroom is an open invitation for online predators. Never allow children to use phones behind closed doors.
• Passwords and Monitoring: You must have your child’s phone password. Regular monitoring of phone activity is non-negotiable to ensure safety.
• No Phones During Family Time: Phones should be put away during family meals or bonding time. This encourages meaningful connections and protects your child’s mental health.

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Important Takeaways:

• Phones should be a “we” affair, not a “me” affair.
• Parents should have full access to their child’s phone and its contents at all times.
• No phones in bedrooms or during family time.
• Strict no-social media rule until children are mature enough to handle the risks.
• Phones should not interfere with mental health, sleep, or family interactions.

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• Dr. Poonam Verma (Principal, SSCBS, Delhi University)

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As the country moves rapidly toward digitisation across sectors, the nature of cyber risks has evolved just as quickly. What once started with basic phishing and identity theft has now scaled into complex threats involving deepfakes, AI-led social engineering, ransomware targeting critical infrastructure, and systemic cyber abuse affecting vulnerable populations.

The sheer volume of users added to the internet every year in India has created an enormous attack surface. As of 2024, India has over 918 million internet users, with mobile data consumption averaging 24.1 GB per user per month. This growth, while empowering, also intensifies risk. In 2023 alone, there were over 1.56 million cybercrime complaints, with Delhi recording 755 cases per 100,000 population, far above the national average of 129 per 100,000. Financial frauds have caused cumulative losses of ₹10,319 crore since April 2021, but only ₹1,127 crore has been recovered—just about 11%.

In this new landscape, cyber threats are no longer just technical challenges. They have become national security concerns, social equity issues, and governance matters. The conversation must shift from just cybersecurity to a deeper, layered understanding of digital risk.

At the forefront of this change is the urgent need to empower not just law enforcement but also students, entrepreneurs, educators, and administrators with real, actionable awareness. The traditional model of digital training is outdated. Static modules and fear-based messaging have little effect on real-time risk mitigation. Today’s threats demand adaptive, context-sensitive education and strong inter-sectoral collaboration.

We must also acknowledge that technology abuse is growing rapidly across domestic, professional, and governance spheres. Stalkerware, spyware, data leaks, and coercive surveillance are no longer limited to high-profile targets. They affect students, women, senior citizens, and vulnerable communities at scale. Cybercrimes linked to social media—such as impersonation and harassment—have nearly tripled, rising from 56,000+ in 2020 to over 156,000 in 2024. In parallel, high-value frauds over ₹100,000 have quadrupled, jumping from 6,699 in FY 2023 to 29,082 in FY 2024, with total losses around ₹177.7 crore ($20 million).

India’s regulatory posture is catching up. The new data protection laws, government push toward AI regulation, and increased focus on forensic investigation are steps in the right direction. But laws without awareness and enforcement remain dormant. Building internal capacities across the system is no longer optional. It is essential.

As Cyber Safety Risk Advisors, our role is not just to intervene after an incident. It is to anticipate risk, educate stakeholders, and shape policy in a way that protects people first. Cyber safety is not a privilege. It is a fundamental right and responsibility in today’s India.

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